FAMILY CONSTELLATIONS

Systemic and Family Constellations is now practiced in more than 35 countries by therapists, coaches, and organizational consultants, supported by dedicated training institutes and professional associations worldwide. Developed in Germany, it has become especially popular across Europe, where it is taught in university‑level certificate programs and professional institutes and used as a systemic, complementary approach in counselling, coaching, mediation, and organizational consulting. In Brazil, elements of systemic and family constellations have been incorporated into parts of the judiciary and public health system as recognized complementary practices, particularly in family‑court–linked mediation and conflict‑resolution programs. In Mexico, it has been described in anthropological research as one of the fastest‑growing therapeutic methods in the country, reflecting its rapid uptake in community, clinical, and spiritual settings. Peer‑reviewed studies and clinical reports have also explored Family Constellations as an integrative approach for mental health and psychosomatic concerns, with emerging evidence of benefit in key psychosocial outcomes.


THANK YOU FOR COMING

Offering transformational & wellness coaching, systemic & family constellation facilitation, somatic & trauma informed consulting and immersive learning experiences focused on life transitions, relationships, family and organizational patterns, purpose, and leadership. I am not a licensed mental health professional and do not diagnose, treat, or provide psychotherapy. When client needs extend beyond my scope, I collaborate with and refer to licensed clinicians as appropriate.

Since the dawn of man, humans have supported one another’s healing through relational, experiential, and intuitive connection with each other and the natural world. Modern Western mental health systems—formed through licensure and regulation less than a century ago—offer a framework for safety and consistency, yet they remain limited by institutional constraints, symptom‑based models, and a disconnection from body, spirit, and land. These systems represent only one narrow chapter in the long story of human healing. Thank you for visiting my page.


PRESENT CONDITIONS

We experience reality as we are. It’s like asking a fish to describe water—the medium itself is too total to be seen. Human perception operates much the same way: kaleidoscoping fragments of sensation, memory, and patterning are constantly rearranging what our cognition reasons as “reality.” Each psyche is as singular as a snowflake, while each worldview is forged by its own fires. Then, overlay making sense of sense-making within the captivity conditions of our fishbowl. Henry Ford comes to mind: You can have any color you want, as long as it’s black or black.

Entrained and restrained by the notion of five senses, humanity lacks the instruments to measure actual reality. Consider our equine counterparts: horses see nearly 360 degrees, feel ground vibrations through bare hooves for miles, smell and hear infinitely well beyond our range—all without the illusory constraints of our prefrontal cortex.

Humanity was tampered with long ago. At any given moment, new empirical evidence can upend the foundations for every paradigm underpinning what gives rise to our perceived cohesive, mutually yielded to—coerced web of projected illusion understood by us as experienced reality. Now we are being called to reconnect, to come fully back online.


KRISTIN O'CONNOR

  • Hellinger Institute of DC, Advanced Facilitator Certificate, Family Constellations: Susan Ulfelder 2025 - Feb 2026

  • Hellinger Institute of DC, Foundational Training Certificate, Family Constellations: Susan Ulfelder 2024 - 2025

  • EQUUSOMA® Level 1 2026 - I am training in EQUUSOMA® horse-human trauma recovery, which is informed by ethology, trauma and attachment, interspecies neurobiology, Somatic Experiencing®, equitation science, and social justice principals, among other frameworks & approaches.

  • STELLIUM TRYST est. 2025 - Owner, Organic Micro Flower & Horse Farm, central VA, dedicated to zero chems, earth healing natives/biodiverse & permaculture practices

  • Mark Wolynn: Inherited Family Trauma Training 2025

  • 1997 - 2025 CEO, Owner/Founder of RainMaker Studios

  • 1997 - 2025 CEO/Executive Producer, Owner Founder & Entrepreneur: Six successful Startups; authored business plans, funding large scale for-profit and non-profit initiatives

  • 2000 - 2020 President/Founder/Owner; Various commercial advertising services companies spanning music development, editorial & post production

  • 2020 - 2021 L1 Certified Life Coach, ENLIFTED METHOD‍ ‍

  • 2022 - 2023 Rosa Mystica 13 Moon Mystery School

  • 1995 RUTGERS UNIVERSITY, BS Communications and Minor Equivalent in Visual Arts 1995

  • Mary Magdalena Travel Study, St. Baume France & Glastonbury/Avalon UK 2024

  • 2020 - Present Equine Rescue Volunteer Work; White Byrd Appaloosa Rescue Nov 2022 to present, Hope’s Legacy Equine Rescue 2020 - 2021

  • 2019 - 2022 Astrology 11 Aquarian Metaphysics, Astrology 1 Aquarian Metaphysics, Tarot 1 Aquarian Metaphysics

  • INGO SWANN, concentrated self-study, 2018 - present

  • 2011 - Present; Genealogy Study, Global Travel by Ancestral Lineage

  • 2006 - Present Owner HOUSE RED, Interior Design Consultant for Home Flipping/Residential Renovation Designer

  • 2006 - Present Owner HOUSE RED/Residential Environmental Design; Feng Shui & Elemental Spatial Design

  • 2023 University of Richmond - Executive Program, Interior Decorating Certificate

  • 2003 - Present; Psychotherapy - Trauma Informed & Somatic Informed Autodidactic Practice

  • 2007 - Present; Somatic Healing, Plant Medicine, Breathwork & Mediation, Fire Magic, Crystals, varied workshops, Druidry


AFFILIATE

The Resonant Field Method, Lily Roth Equine Sessions, in Woodburn NY. Rooted in Family Constellations, takes place within the living field shared by you, the horses, and everything moving through your body and lineage. The horses support the guided representation, as deeper patterns and loyalties surface with clarity.

As truths emerge, the horses movements, pauses, and attention naturally show what’s ready to be released and reclaimed. In a two-species field collaboration, the horses move to reorient the ‘field’ via their remarkable non-human intelligence.

Equine constellations bring magic that meets you where you are. Guided by their deeper knowing, they honor what exists to facilitate what can be shifted. Meet the herd.