Life is a very different matter when we have a clue as to its meaning.
You are aware, that, you are aware. You have will, with which, to will. You are self-making through an infolding and unfolding process. You are to Make who you Are, and from the forces with which you create, you produce your Being. Your task is to actuate yourself beyond material achievement.
I help you recalibrate the axis point from which your life’s coordinates arise and expand.
I bring degrees in Communications and Visual Arts, along with decades of experience as an entrepreneur and CEO in marketing services. I founded, built, and led multi-million-dollar ventures, creative teams, and profitable initiatives.
At fifty-one, I exited as one facet of a whole-scale, conscious reduction: sculpting out interference and excess down to the essential. This zeroing out made possible a more precise, potent form of expansion. Today, I work as an intuitive coach, healer, astrologer, and facilitator of Family and Systemic Constellations.
Trained in Family and Systemic Constellations with Susan Ulfelder and other respected facilitators, I draw on systemic theory, Hermetic philosophy and principles, astrology, ancient wisdom traditions, and trauma renegotiation informed by Somatic Experiencing®.
My healing journey began early in life, driven by an unrelenting desire not only to ease my pain and confusion, but to dig all the way into their origins. I saw no other way.
Earlier at aged thirty, working with a transpersonal psychotherapist, I tentatively suggested that six months of sessions might heal my “issue.” His response was sobering: a chuckle, then the blunt truth that, if I was lucky, I was in for a decade of sleeves‑rolled‑up, dedicated inner work. He added, almost casually, that with the exception of military combat, I had endured multiple counts of every type of trauma his profession identifies.
Over the next twenty‑plus years, I traveled widely and engaged in a no‑stone‑unturned excavation—through traditional psychotherapy, body‑based modalities, spiritual practices, and many edges of the alternative healing world. RevelaStory emerged as a way to weave together what proved most effective—systemic, somatic, spiritual, and psychological strands—into one coherent, usable framework for others.
Paradoxically, this spiritual and psychological autopsy unfolded alongside a decades‑long career in the advertising industry—a world
devoted to shaping perception, fracturing reality, and severing people from nature and deeper purpose in order to keep us buying into illusion. This contrast became yet another great teacher.
Breakthrough Approach
Decades of psychotherapy and inner work laid the foundation; then in 2018, I encountered Family Constellations. Constellation work served as the crucible—that final missing gear that changed everything. It’s wildly complex and exhilarating—the countless variables that shape a person and their fate. We are each an exquisite puzzle continually met with the wild privilege of choice: tune in or tune out. We should listen to those subtle (or not so subtle) “breadcrumbs” life scatters in our path.
True momentum comes when therapy models, systemic work, somatics, and spiritual inquiry are held inside one integrative revelatory process.
I live in central Virginia on my 10‑acre, zero‑chems micro‑flower farm, Stellium Tryst—aptly named for my packed twelfth‑house natal chart. I share my days with my 25‑year‑old son, two wolfy dogs, a black cat, and my horses Ayra & Scotch. I thrive outdoors: hiking, connecting with nature and animals, nurturing native gardens and wildflower meadows, reading, making art, and sharing life with my tribe of dear friends, family, and colleagues.
“I became aware of the fateful links between me and my ancestors. I feel very strongly that I am under the influence of things or questions that were left incomplete and unanswered by my parents and grandparents and more distant ancestors. It often seems as if there were an impersonal karma within a family, which is passed from parents to children. It has always seemed to me that I had to answer questions which fate had posed to my forefathers, and which had not yet been answered, or as if I had to complete, or perhaps continue things which previous ages had left unfinished. The cause of the disturbance is, therefore, not to be sought in the personal surroundings, but rather in the collective situation. Psychotherapy has hitherto taken this matter far too little into account.”
- Carl Gustav Jung: Memories, Dreams & Reflections, 1961