THE WHY AND HOW

My healing journey began early in life, driven by an unrelenting desire not only to ease my pain and confusion, but to dig all the way into their origins. I saw no other way.

At thirty, working with a transpersonal psychotherapist, I tentatively suggested that six months of sessions might heal my “issue.” His response was sobering: a chuckle, then the blunt truth that, if I was lucky, I was in for a decade of sleeves‑rolled‑up, dedicated inner work. He added, almost casually, that with the exception of military combat, I had endured multiple counts of every type of trauma his profession identifies.

Paradoxically, this spiritual and psychological excavation unfolded alongside a decades‑long career in the advertising industry—a world devoted to shaping perception, fracturing reality, and severing people from nature and deeper purpose in order to keep us invested in illusion. That contrast became one of my greatest teachers.

Over the next twenty‑plus years, I traveled widely and engaged in an exhaustive, holistic search—through traditional psychotherapy, body‑based modalities, spiritual practices, and many edges of the “alternative” healing world. That no‑stone‑unturned excavation eventually brought me to the bottom‑floor pit of my ever‑evolving self. Out of that journey, the RevelaStory Method emerged as a way to weave together what proved most effective—systemic, somatic, spiritual, and psychological strands—into one coherent, usable framework for others.​

If you’ve already done years of therapy, coaching, and spiritual work yet still feel haunted by familiar themes, you are the person I built this work for.

We experience reality as we are. It’s like asking a fish to describe water—the medium itself is too total to be seen. Human perception operates much the same way: kaleidoscoping fragments of sensation, memory, and patterning are constantly rearranging what our cognition reasons as “reality.” Each psyche is as singular as a snowflake, while each worldview is forged by its own fires. Then, overlay making sense of sense-making within the captivity conditions of our fishbowl. Henry Ford comes to mind: You can have any color you want, as long as it’s black or black.

Entrained and restrained by the notion of five senses, humanity lacks the instruments to measure actual reality. Consider our equine counterparts: horses see nearly 360 degrees, feel ground vibrations through bare hooves for miles, smell and hear infinitely well beyond our range—all without the illusory constraints of our prefrontal cortex.

Humanity was tampered with long ago. At any given moment, new empirical evidence can upend the foundations for every paradigm underpinning what gives rise to our perceived cohesive, mutually yeilded to—coerced web of projected illusion understood by us as experienced reality. Now we are being called to reconnect, to come fully back online.

BREAKTHROUGH APPROACH

Decades of psychotherapy and inner work laid the foundation; then, in 2018, constellations became the crucible where all of it could take form. Rather than replacing therapy, constellation work served as an alchemical catalyst—that final missing gear.

It’s wildly complex and exhilarating—the countless variables that shape a person and their fate. We are each an exquisite puzzle continually met with the wild privilege of choice: tune in or tune out. We can listen to the subtle (or not so subtle) “breadcrumbs” life scatters in our path. 

The RevelaStory Method grew from this realization: true momentum comes when therapy models, systemic work, somatics, and spiritual inquiry are held inside one integrative revelatory process. It’s more than a method; it’s a movement. This is where I come in.

Seminal works such as The Four (and Fifth) Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz, How Emotions Are Made by Lisa Feldman Barrett, The Mutant Message by Marlo Morgan, Reality Boxes by Ingo Swann, The Tao of Equus by Linda Kohanov, and other texts by Rupert Sheldrake, Ivan Antic and Ingo Swann have profoundly shaped my philosophy.

I live in central Virginia on my 10‑acre, zero‑chems micro‑flower farm, Stellium Tryst—aptly named for my packed twelfth‑house natal chart. I share my days with my 24‑year‑old son, two wolfy dogs, a black cat, and horses, and I thrive outdoors: hiking, tending horses, nurturing native gardens and wildflower meadows, reading, making art, and sharing life with a tribe of dear friends, family, and colleagues.